He, She, Them

 I started to resemble "he" and "she"

Valentine's Day is today! I'm wondering why, exactly, my heart feels so different that I no longer value somebody's efforts. I wondered how someone could be so loving toward me. I therefore go back in time to those instances when I experienced constant questions about my level of concern, my ability to make others proud, and my attempts to provide happiness to others. 

I've always enjoyed seeing "them" happy, so I did all in my power to make them happy. Little did I realize, though, that they are actually just a bunch of frustrated billionaires who would never be content in life unless they became one.

These are my heartbreaking tales that, in the end, helped me to become like "them" by hardening my heart sufficiently to be truly humble toward both myself and other people. 

First of all, when I began my elementary education, I was already a garbage collector. When I get a thousand from the trash I pick up at the end of the week, "she" is thrilled. I gave her my earnings, but once I requested that she use my money to buy me a dress since I wanted to buy one for myself, but instead she bought mangoes to sell. She screamed at me, grabbed the mango sack, and dumped it all over me. I had a really bad headache after that.

I now resemble her. Spending other people's money rather than my own is a notion I find appealing. I'm thrilled when someone spends money on me; therefore, I adore it. 

Second, I also wanted to bring honor to "them." I therefore made an effort to do well academically in primary school, but as I was not intelligent enough to compete with geniuses, my first prize was a ribbon for a special recipient rather than a certificate for being an outstanding student. However, since it was my first prize, I didn't think much of it until I showed it to "him" who simply responded, "only ribbon? Not medal? That's meant for stupid people." That remark totally ruined my childhood. That's when I really began to understand that I had to be great, not simply good or better. 

I now doubt other people's abilities rather than appreciating them.

Third, I competed in many schools, earned medals and scholarships, and put a lot of effort into my studies. I was thrilled to tell "her" that I was a Comlaude student in college, but her response made me feel less happy than I had felt after all the effort I had put into my coursework. 

She responded, "So? What can I do with it? Could it be consumed?."

I no longer celebrate my own or others' accomplishments.

Fourth, I used to be so sweet that every time I surprised "them" for Valentine's Day or birthday, they would end up being unhappy and saying, "This is not important; I don't need these; I need money. If it's money, I'll be happy." 

As a result, now, whenever someone tries to surprise me, I still feel like it's not enough and will look for something more.

This is where I'm supposed to end it since my incision is starting to hurt and I don't want to offend the folks who give me life. But allow me to share my recent breakdown that set off my recovery process. 

I paid for my surgery and other medical expenses using all of my funds. Not even my earnings and a little assistance from friends could cover all the expenses. I had to borrow extra as a result. Then, a relative of mine donates something—not much, but it would be beneficial. Instead of giving it to me, though, "they" held it, and I was left to second-guess who I was going to borrow money for. 

I had medical debts to pay, but "she" didn't even think twice to seek monetary assistance when I got the donation from my student and said, "Save me from my debt."

Now I wish someone can save me from myself

What I have gone through might not be so horrible for others. Though years have gone by, it is heartbreaking to realize that it aches every time I think about it. I am aware that I need to improve myself because I am starting to change into the person I don't want to be. If it's feasible, I need to resolve some concerns I have, or at the very least, learn how to handle them. 

However, for the time being, I'm trying not to speak or make my expectations known because I will only hurt people if I do. I don't want to be the cause of their self-hatred. In order for me to stop being accountable for their feelings and for them to stop being accountable for mine, it is best for me to distance myself from the people I love and want to love.

Happy Valentine's Day everyone!!!

Cebu Taoist Temple

Accepting Diversity: The Value of Being Responsive to Divergent Opinions

Top of the Taoist Temple

In a world where ideologies, religions, and cultures are diverse, accepting people with various opinions is a virtue and essential to promoting harmony, mutual respect, and understanding between individuals and groups. Our worldview broadens, our personal development is enhanced, and a more accepting society where diversity is valued rather than feared is fostered when we are receptive to many viewpoints.

First, having an open mind to many viewpoints promotes intellectual curiosity and a love of learning. Engaging with beliefs different from our own opens our minds to fresh thoughts and viewpoints contradicting our preconceptions. This approach fosters critical thinking and gives us a better grasp of the intricacies of the human mind and behavior. Whether delving into philosophical ideas, religious doctrine, or cultural customs, every interaction deepens our understanding and challenges our presumptions, fostering intellectual and personal development.

Additionally, tolerance for differing viewpoints fosters compassion and understanding. We develop an empathy that cuts beyond racial and ideological divides when we acknowledge that other people have sincerely held ideas. By enabling us to recognize the range of human experiences and feelings, empathy promotes connections based on common goals and values rather than divisions based on differences. In addition to fostering closer bonds between people, this sympathetic comprehension helps create more accepting and cohesive societies where people from different backgrounds can live in harmony with one another.

Additionally, accepting people with diverse ideas promotes an inclusive and respectful society. Respect means recognizing the value of other viewpoints and respecting other people's freedom to hold opinions that are different from our own. Respect is the cornerstone of harmonious social relations and peaceful cohabitation in an inclusive community, enabling people to express their identities and opinions without worrying about bias or discrimination. We open doors for cooperation, communication, and understanding between people of different views by promoting an atmosphere that values and respects them.

We open doors for cooperation, communication, and understanding between people of different views by promoting an atmosphere that values and respects them. This opens the door to advancement as a group and prosperity for all. Crucially, having an open mind to many viewpoints promotes social and individual resilience in the face of hardship. By putting together many perspectives and methods for approaching and solving issues, a variety of thinking promotes innovation and imaginative thinking. Societies that accept a range of opinions can address difficult problems like social inequity, sustainability in the environment, and worldwide medical emergencies by utilizing a multitude of viewpoints and insights. Communities can adapt and flourish in a world that is always changing because of this collective resilience, which also makes use of the advantages of different viewpoints to bring about constructive change and advance the common good.

In the end, fostering a vibrant and inclusive community where people can accept themselves while contributing to the diversity of cultural and intellectual conversation requires being receptive to differing points of view. Openness to differing viewpoints encourages intellectual curiosity, respect, compassion, and collective resilience, all of which contribute to our own development and the strengthening of those around us. Supporting a diversity of opinion and belief will be essential as we continue to negotiate the challenges of a globalized society to foster cross-border understanding and collaboration as well as a better and more equitable society for humankind.

Visiting American Colonial Architecture in the Philippines

An adventure through culture and time

Americal Colonial Architecture: Yap Sandiego Ancestral House 

Getting inside a museum or historic home seems like passing through a gateway that transcends time.

It is a thorough investigation of human imagination, historical events, and culture, in addition to a travel experience. Every object, space, and tale tucked away within the walls holds a fragment of history and provides insight into the times that influenced the world we live in today. Museums are archives and exhibitions that have been thoughtfully chosen to serve as archives of human accomplishment and ingenuity. They display the range of people's lives and the development of civilizations through ancient artifacts and modern art pieces.

Throughout the museum's hallways, you will come across artifacts that span millennia, such as art that depicts ephemeral moments, sculptures that harken back to antiquated stories, and technological advancements that transformed entire industries. It also offers a platform for comprehending the social, political, and cultural settings from which these pieces arose, in addition to the tangible artifacts. They promote empathy and respect for the diversity of our global heritage by shedding light on the challenges and victories faced by many societies.

Every experience broadens your perspective on the history of humanity, whether you are looking at the Egyptian pyramids at the History Museum or admiring the fine craftsmanship of a vase from the Ming Dynasty. On the other hand, touring old homes provides a close-up view into the lives of our ancestors.

Old houses are living histories, with each room, piece of household furniture, and piece of décor conveying a story, in contrast to museums, where artifacts are frequently displayed in isolation.

Imagine the routine activities, festivities, and private moments that formerly took place in the corridors of an old house or small cottage. An old house's architecture captures the aspirations and ideals of the individuals who inhabited it, in addition to the popular style of the day.

A romantic living room with elaborate furnishings and lace drapes conveys the grace and formality of the time. On the other hand, a pioneer's room, with its hewn timbers and simple furnishings, conveys the tenacity and struggles of the first colonists.

Visitors are encouraged to consider how people behaved, worked, and interacted in various historical eras as they enter each area. Furthermore, personal items and memories that provide insight into the lives of their previous residents are frequently preserved in historic residences. 

These objects, which range from handwritten notes to family photos, serve as moving reminders of universal emotions like love, grief, and human connection. They serve as a link between the past and the present, encouraging people to consider how human emotions and goals endure over time.

In conclusion, taking tours of museums and historic homes might change your perspective on history and culture. Ancient dwellings provide intimate depictions of daily life and personal stories, while museums provide a thorough overview of mankind's achievements and innovations.

When taken as a whole, they encourage us to consider the great diversity of human experience as well as the permanent legacy of our predecessors. By spending time in these environments, we not only protect the past but also enhance the present and encourage generations to come to carry on their quest for knowledge.

Opening Your Fear and Accepting Courage and Development

An instinctive feeling that is profoundly embedded in human nature is fear. It acts as a safeguard, warning us of impending threats and hazards. But fear may also become a powerful obstacle that keeps us from realizing our full potential, limits our possibilities, and impedes personal development. To genuinely overcome our worries, we must set out on a path of introspection and empowerment. 

 (Zipline going to Kawasan Fall Canyoneering: PHP 600.00)

Acknowledging oneself is the fundamental step in conquering fear. It's critical to pinpoint the precise anxieties that prevent us from moving forward. It could be a fear of success, of rejection, of mystery, or of failure. Every fear has a unique way of showing up in our thoughts, feelings, and behaviors, which influences the choices we make. Understanding comes next after recognizing something. Our views and assessments of circumstances are typically the source of fear. It is happy in the unknown and feeds on ambiguity. By facing our anxieties head-on, we can better understand their dynamics and sources, which gives us the confidence to question their veracity and control over our lives. 

To face fear is to have courage. 

(The Highest Jump at Kawasan Fall Canyoneering)

It's important to acknowledge fear and make the decision to go in spite of it, rather than trying to completely eradicate it. Knowing that new possibilities are waiting on the other side of fear is what cultivates courage. Perseverance and commitment are key components of this. Overcoming fear also means accepting discomfort. We frequently grow when we step outside of our comfort zones. It calls on us to accept weakness, try new things, and take chances. We broaden our perspectives and uncover talents and abilities we never realized we possessed when we dare to go into discomfort. In order to overcome fear, guidance and encouragement can be quite helpful. We can find perspective and encouragement by surrounding ourselves with mentors, encouraging groups, and having beneficial influences. 

(The last stop: Kawasan Falls)

They guide us through obstacles and disappointments along the road by providing certainty and wisdom. In the end, conquering fear is a very personal process. It necessitates reflection, awareness of oneself, and an openness to change. We may open doors to personal development, adaptability, and pleasure by facing our anxieties with bravery, empathy, and help. Throughout this course of action, we get to understand the full scope of our abilities and the endless opportunities that present themselves to us when we decide to live bravely and truthfully. In a nutshell, fear is a normal aspect of being human. But as we learn to overcome our fears, we may turn them from roadblocks to personal development and revelation. Although the road demands bravery, reflection, and support, the benefits—self-actualization, resiliency, and fulfillment—are priceless. 

Let's embrace the process of conquering fear and use its transformational power to build a life full of significance and meaning as we traverse the ups and downs of life.

The Worth of Fashion

A lot of critics nowadays firmly claim that the price of fashion stuff is just unreasonably priced and only a few could afford to live with it, which is no longer appropriate. Some would argue that this is fair because fashion plays a significant role in daily life.

This essay will objectively discuss both of the given ideas as well as some other objective views about the issue of the cost of fashion.

Fashion is now becoming exorbitantly expensive, which makes it hard for everyone to achieve a fashionable look. The primary reason for this is the high quality of the materials used to create an elegant appearance, such as fibers extracted from plants and animals, which are also expensive, like cotton, wool, linen, silk, leather, and snakeskin. In addition, popularity becomes another factor contributing to the high cost of fashion. A certain brand will surely not be well-known if it does not bring any good fashion styles to individuals. To achieve a good level of popularity, brands will have to invest in their staff and the equipment used to make their desired fashion a reality. Some highly respected luxurious brands are Gucci, Chanel, Louis Vuitton, and Hermes.

On the other hand, people also defended the worth of fashion as equal to what it deserved. Some people believe that our identity is molded by fashion, which includes social class, race, and ethnicity. Moreover, social trends have a significant impact on the way we create social standards, affecting our personal preferences in life. For instance, a dress can make a good or bad impression on others.

Therefore, having great-quality fashion material that is also popular is very important for maintaining beauty and, at the same time, the durability of the garment. To embody fashion, it takes a great deal of money. The worth of it brings everyone closer to the beauty of life as either a group or an individual.

Personally, fashion is just an idea of expression. Anyone can achieve a fashionable look in any way they think is good for them, whether it is through spending a lot or making use of what they have. At the end of the day, we celebrate differences and freedom of expression, especially in fashion. 

Stop the War

The American Civil War, the Soviet War in Afghanistan, the Vietnam War, the Thirty Years' War, the Napoleonic Wars, the Russian Civil War, the Empire of Japan's conquests, World War I, Mongol conquests, World War II, and, most recently, the Russia-Ukraine war.

These are just some of the world's most controversial wars in history. Since the start of history, there has been a distinctive rage and rapidity in our race to establish one's dominance over the other. We all know how authority was ascertained in the old roman days by the size of the troops and their determination to win wars. However, has this significantly changed? We are now in 2022, and we are supposed to measure a country's greatness by its GDP, or gross domestic product, as well as its unemployment rate. Instead of invading another country to show up strong to others, rulers could perhaps focus on enabling economic benefit. However, it seems like there are still people who are living in the past and still want to display their immorality and selfishness to the world. Do you remember when, after World War II, Albert Einstein was asked in an interview?

"Sir, what type of machinery and weapons do you think will be used in World War III?" He then replied, with a smile, "I don't know about World War III, but if there is a World War IV, it will undoubtedly be fought with sticks and stones."

You see? We, humans, appear to be trapped in an endless war between ourselves, whereas the stakeholders, officials, heads, and chiefs have never performed and may never perform any of the dirty-risky work and simply govern everything from behind the scenes, especially since most people go to fight to win, not to lose. It is possible that we will lose a lot of fighters and just depend on sticks and stones for our safety. However, despite the fact that these wars were fought in multiple regions by distinct groups around the world at different times in history, the victims were always the same innocent and unarmed people. The countless innocent civilians who were killed cannot be replaced. War has never fostered good virtues such as prosperity, peace, or compassion. Those who survive are not fully secure either. We must reject the widely held belief that war can solve anything; taking countless children and destroying homes, relationships, people's dreams, and aspirations is never honorable.

If you think that war will strengthen the lives of countless individuals, you are immoral and trash in this world. Stop justifying wars as though they will make you a national hero. Implementing unnecessary wars to challenge power is just an immature, stupid, and inhumane act. Instead of having wars, why not just lift each other up? It is time to alter the law so that those who launch an attack, particularly an illegal war, face appropriate repercussions. Countries should pursue alternatives to war, such as agreements. We should all understand that human lives are far too valuable to be assessed by political ambitions. It is time to put an end to double standards and demand that our leaders obtain peaceful means of resolving conflicts. The proper solution is not war, but war appears to be the easiest way. There are more effective and long-term alternatives to war for resolving disputes. Making sacrifices and compromises, as well as discussing our distinctions without casting aspersions on innocent blood, are among the good alternatives. Let us make each other great by working together to protect our environment and endangered animals, and provide a safe environment for our children. I am calling on the world’s leaders to be united as one and plan how to make our homeland, Earth, worthy of living because, at the end of the day, we are all going to die, so while we are alive, let us create a safe and healthy world for the next generations.

Filipino Inventor and their Invention